Thailand is a gay and a tourist paradise. It offers the finest sight-seeing in Asia, and with such warm, friendly, happy people and such handsome young men, it is a mecca for gays. We do not use the artificial Western way of putting us all into classifications like 'gay' or 'straight'. The most heterosexual young man may readily make love with you if he likes you.Rak ruam phet.I have always loved my own gender.Homosexuality is not mentioned in our laws. Homosexuality has been a more naturally integrated part of our culture than in just about any other present day culture known to us, the right to be homosexual has never been forbidden or restricted in Thailand.I have decided to write a diary.I am not going to write in it every day, only if something special happens.My name is Aek and I live in Chiang Mai, Thailand.I am twenty four years old.I work at the New My Way bar.It is a gay bar.I have worked there for four years.My hobbies include kick boxing, cooking and men.