Nightmares Passed on Through Generations

"I come from a place where breath, eyes and memory are one, a place from which you carry your past like the hair on your head."

Much of this book is difficult to read. The pain and horror that the women expierence affect them and their relationships through generations..."and recreate the same unspeakable acts that they themselves lived through."

Sophie's mother experienced horrible violations in her youth, making motherhood unbearable. Once Sophie and her mother reunite, her mother passed on nightmares "like heirlooms".
In the end, compassion helps Sophie realize that her mother was as b"brave as stars at dawn". ( )

Very sad. Glad to have read it. Really amazing commentary and imagery about motherhood. Great perspective! ( )

Break my heart. ( )

A tale of women across 4 generations dealing with old traditional virginity safeguards. Learning to honor the pluses of their Haitian culture while breaking the chain of abuse. Also a tale of forgiveness. ( )

Here's what I wrote in 2008 about this read: "Insightful into both Haiti and Haitan life in New York City. Likely worth a re-read to reinforce and remember in more detail." ( )