I read this book in 1980 after my best friend died of cancer. I was only 23 and quite at sea with my grief. This book helped immensely. I have not looked at the book since then, however. My recollection is that it was personal and practical. My brother recently lost his wife and I am purchasing a copy for him. I plan to review it first, however, to see if I still feel as strongly about it. ( )