Some women might find it flattering, being asked out over and over again by a man determined to have you. But not me. Not that the man in question isn't sexy as sin, funny as hell, and charming as they get. Because he is. But sometimes you just can't allow yourself to be interested in someone for other reasons, other variables. This is one of those times. Saxon Tate is my best friend's ex-boyfriend. He cheated on her. He could possibly cheat again. That's three strikes.