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Mr. Hotshot CEO

por Jackie Lau

Séries: Kwan Sisters (2)

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As CEO of Fong Investments, I'm a busy man. In fact, my family claims I'm an obsessive workaholic, and when they force me to take two weeks off, I have no idea what to do with myself.While brooding over an espresso, I meet Courtney Kwan, a biomedical researcher who savors the little things in life. And, suddenly, an idea strikes me—I will pay this woman to teach me how to enjoy my vacation from work.Soon, I find myself doing crazy things like baking cookies, reading for pleasure, buying a phallic cactus, and falling in love. But Courtney is dealing with some serious issues of her own, and I fear that when I return to work, I won't be able to give her what she needs, and I'll lose her forever…… (mais)
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I want to start this review by saying two things:

1) this is not as light hearted as GRUMPY FAKE BOYFRIEND. There are many cute fluffy moments, but it's core is about a woman struggling with clinical depression and her learning to accept it doesn't mean being alone.

2) This book was HARD for me to read at times. I've never been diagnosed with clinical depression - as part of my general anxiety diagnosis and my specific social anxiety diagnosis my therapist documented "depression episodes" directly related to my anxiety.

As such, while I have not experienced the exact same nature of Courtney's depression (no one can ever truly experience depression the same way) I have experienced ELEMENTS of it.

This is all to say, I recommend this book with few reservations, but please if you have depression or know that reading about a person who is trying to get a handle on their own will trigger you, ask someone who knows your triggers to read the book first. (UPDATE: The author has a very informative thread here on twitter that I recommend reading if you are worried. She's also very responsive and welcoming of questions about specifics you may be worried about).

The rest of my review is behind a spoiler cut since I'll be discussing some pieces of what Courtney is going through.

In GRUMPY FAKE BOYFRIEND we learn little about Courtney other than Naomi is fiercely protective of her and loves her unconditionally. We learn she's been her older sister's support - her only real support - for years and she worries that Courtney will never see a bigger picture beyond her depression.

From the get go Courtney is up front about her reservations about what her future would hold. She wants normalcy, or what she considers normalcy, and while thankful to have her sister's support is low key jealous that her sister found a boyfriend she loves (and who loves her) so much.

Courtney is certain - both due to a former beau's callous mishandling years ago and much of her immediate family's careful, but useless handling of her - she can never have a relationship or family of her own. She doesn't feel it's safe for her, or fair to whoever she's with.

This is the first thing that struck home for me. For years my anxiety made me certain that it was inevitable my friends would grow tired of me and drop me. It happened before and I largely haven't changed so the circumstances of my previous friends' reasons for dropping me surely are based in fact so it was only a matter of time before new friends thought along the same lines.

The second thing that struck me was that Courtney - consciously or not - viewed therapy and medications as "failures" because they never worked for her. They didn't "fix her" like others tbought it should so why go through that rigamarole over and over again? She knew the pattern of her depression, she just had to deal with it and the fall out that she'd eventually have to deal with.

For a variety of reasons I didn't want to go near a therapist. I didn't want to touch medications. It felt like I was being weak by even considering it. I was "better" than that. I just had to try harder. Give a little more to my new friends so they'd feel I was useful to have around.

Before my therapist I would often concoct elaborate ways the friendships could end and how it would feel to deal with it. I'd forget a birthday and my friend would instantly shun me because I obviously didn't care as much as I should or I'd want to skip an event because of the crowds and they'd accuse me of never supporting their interests.

These are all things that often occurred in my youth or actions former friends would say to me when they tired of me. I forced myself into situations that I wasn't really sure I wanted to be part of just because I didn't want to lose my new friends. Which made things worse of course.

The easy solution would have been for Courtney to communicate with Julian. But as is proven later on that's not always the case.

Aside from his wealth, Julian is one of the most well adjusted, down to earth and NORMAL romance heroes you will ever read about. Even his flaws - being a workaholic, throwing money at problems, being too good start everything ever - don't lessen that. Which is exactly the problem.

When things finally come to a head between Courtney's on-coming depression and Julian's inexperience with what that means, he makes every single mistake a person can make when trying to reassure a person with depression. Not maliciously, but born from ignorance. He did his research on the internet but didn't internalize what that really meant.

And Courtney, already in the early stages of her depression cycle and having spent much of her time obsessing over whether she deserved to be loved and whether she was really just a burden to Julian, lashed out. Again not maliciously, but because she could literally not make the connection in her head that Julian cared. She'd hit the wall of "if he cared he'd do this" in her mind, unable to hear the voice that said "he's trying, help him understand".

The cycle of self recriminations and hatred and shame that Courtney goes through is one I know very well. Lau handles that so convincingly I had to stop reading and remind myself this wasn't me on the page. The rising tide of anxiety I felt reading what Courtney was going through tore me up.

This all said I appreciated seeing how they both came separate understandings about their relationship before talking about it all. Granted, this is a romance so some of Courtney's realizations felt more abrupt then Julian's, but I was so happy they had a plan to fight for their relationship that I didn't even care.

This is one of the very few romances I've read where I felt many of the emotional beats were relatable to me almost perfectly (for reference DEVIL IN WINTER is another one). And Julian (who happened to be played by Lewis Tan in my head) was, if not perfect, so very on point with his development that I wanted exactly what his Po Po wanted (lots of cute babies from the two of them).
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  lexilewords | Dec 28, 2023 |
I went into this book a bit blind: I haven't read book 1, Grumpy Fake Boyfriend; I don't read much rom-com sorts of romances, but I'd heard good things about Lau, and ultimately I enjoyed this book.

The beginning is all about the slightly absurd setup: Julian Fong is forced to take a vacation from his family's investment business, and he approaches a woman he's noticed at a local cafe, Courtney Kwan, and asks her to help him keep away from the office and enjoy his time off. It feels very rom-com in terms of banter and the odd situation, and as the story goes on, there is more angst as the characterizations go deeper. Courtney is dealing with long-term depression while Julian is dealing with everything that workaholism allowed him to bury. It's hard to mesh the tone of the comedy and the heavy subject matter, and Lau does it well. I think having two main characters who are slightly awkward helps.
  rkreish | Jun 10, 2018 |
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As CEO of Fong Investments, I'm a busy man. In fact, my family claims I'm an obsessive workaholic, and when they force me to take two weeks off, I have no idea what to do with myself.While brooding over an espresso, I meet Courtney Kwan, a biomedical researcher who savors the little things in life. And, suddenly, an idea strikes me—I will pay this woman to teach me how to enjoy my vacation from work.Soon, I find myself doing crazy things like baking cookies, reading for pleasure, buying a phallic cactus, and falling in love. But Courtney is dealing with some serious issues of her own, and I fear that when I return to work, I won't be able to give her what she needs, and I'll lose her forever…

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