A long-overdue guide to assist parents in minimising the damage to their children before, during and after divorce. What makes this book different and invaluable is that the uncompromising authors refuse to sugar-coat their detailed, practical advice. They present their material with authority, and wisdom. Topics include: What adults can expect from a custody battle; What emotions arise in themselves and their children; How to answer their children's questions; How and why to put the child's needs first; With blueprint mapping out a child's needs for emotional health and well-being; Need for extra vigilance toward children during times of adult transition; How to soften the custody battle; The hidden needs of children; Dealing with uncooperative spouse.